Final Fantasy 14 players built their own in-game Tinder, and the profiles that surfaced on social media within hours suggest nobody held back.
Meeting a real person in Eorzea has always required a peculiar kind of faith. You planted yourself in Limsa Lominsa long enough, or fired off a hopeful line in Party Finder, or yelled into the /yell channel and waited, your character name fully exposed to whoever happened to be passing.
Two developers decided that was not good enough, so they shipped AetherLove, a plugin that brought swipe-based matchmaking directly into the game, with anonymous profiles and end-to-end encrypted chat.
Final Fantasy 14 now has a Tinder-style in-game dating app
AetherLove, available at aetherlove.space, runs through XIVLauncher and opens as a mobile-style card deck inside the game window.
Players build a profile under a custom alias rather than their character name, select what they are actually there for (raid partners, roleplay, romance, or everything at once), and swipe through other players until a match comes back. Your character name stays private until you choose to share it, and both SFW and NSFW modes are available, with the latter off by default and subject to human moderation.
The plugin’s own pitch lays out what it replaced: a toss-up between lingering at a venue hoping someone says hi, dropping a vague “casual RP, maybe more” into Party Finder, or shouting into Limsa /yell, every option requiring you to hand over your identity to total strangers before you knew a single thing about them.
The profiles that started circulating on X once the plugin launched ranged from Miqo’te seeking “her one true love” to an Au Ra whose requirements list specified a partner who must be six feet tall or under, unable to have both parents present in his life, at least Masters-ranked in League of Legends or Valorant, and “preferably on government benefits and still living with the singular parent.”
AetherLove is not officially sanctioned by Square Enix, so how long it lasts is an open question, but the community is already firmly aboard.
If you want more of what the Final Fantasy 14 community is getting up to, the next expansion is adding a full Neon Genesis Evangelion Alliance Raid series, and Square Enix recently ran a real-world meal collab with an exclusive in-game “Eat Chicken” emote attached.

